Tell Us About Ways to Show Love ► Suzy Turner

Welcome back to another edition of Tell Us About, the monthly blogging challenge where a group of us come together to share our thoughts on a chosen theme. Last month, we wrote about Something New, chosen by Debbie. This time, we’re talking about Ways to Show Love – a topic that initially had me scratching my head!

When I thought about it, I realised that love isn’t just about grand romantic gestures or special occasions; it’s in the little things we do every day. One of the most well-known ways to explore this idea is through the Five Love Languages, a concept developed by Dr. Gary Chapman. If you’re not familiar with them, they outline different ways people give and receive love.

The Five Love Languages

Words of Affirmation – Some people feel most loved when they hear kind words, compliments, or encouragement. A simple “I appreciate you” or “I love you” can mean the world to them. This one resonates with me because I tell my husband I love him several times a day! It’s just something we do, especially when one of us is heading out the door.
Acts of Service – For others, actions speak louder than words. Doing things like making a cup of tea, cooking dinner, or running errands for a loved one can be a powerful way to show you care.
Receiving Gifts – This doesn’t have to mean expensive presents! It’s more about the thought behind a gift – a little token that says, “I was thinking of you.” My husband and I don’t really splurge on romantic gestures, though. Instead, we just buy things we like throughout the year when we’re together.
Quality Time – Some people feel most loved when they have someone’s undivided attention. Whether it’s a deep conversation, a long walk, or watching a film together, time spent together is what matters most to them.
Physical Touch – Hugs, holding hands, or a simple touch on the shoulder can be incredibly meaningful for those who connect through physical affection. Personally, I feel very loved when I am being hugged by my husband. I guess you could say it’s corny or romantic, but being in his strong embrace is my favourite place!

Ways to Show Love Beyond Romance

For my husband and me, Valentine’s Day just isn’t our thing. We don’t celebrate it because we believe love should be shown every single day, not just when the calendar tells us to! Plus, let’s be honest – it’s become such a commercial thing now, all about spending money rather than genuine connection.

When it comes to friends, I honestly hadn’t thought about how I show love before writing this post! But I suppose it’s just by being there for them whenever they need a shoulder to lean on. Sometimes, love isn’t about saying or doing the ‘right’ things—it’s just about showing up when it matters.

How do you express love to those around you? I’d love to hear your thoughts in the comments! And don’t forget to check out the other bloggers’ Ways to Show Love:

Deb – Deb’s World. Debbie explains how she says ‘I love you’ without actually saying the words “I love you’. And also shares some poetry on love while she’s at it.
Mary Katherine – MK’s Adventures in Style. MK’s take on this month’s topic is Lovin from the Oven – if she REALLY loves you, this is what she’ll cook for you!
Penny – Frugal Fashion Shopper
Leslie – Once Upon a Time and Happily Ever After. Leslie is sharing ways she and her family say I love you.
Marsha – Marsha In The Middle. Marsha is writing a mini retreat for the women of her church. Coincidentally, it’s about Love! So, she’s killing two birds with one stone for this month’s Tell Us About!
Sue – Women Living Well After 50. Sue writes about Loving and nourishing your body empowers you to thrive, embrace life fully, and bloom with vitality at every stage.
Rosie – Rosie Amber. Rosie wrote a poem inspired by romance book titles.